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"Mom
In the Trenches"
is a weekly journal written by Amy Topham, a Mother of 3
children writing about her "day to day" trials
and tribulations of raising her kids.
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There have been a lot of changes around our house lately.
Mommy seems to be in a “health phase” right now. At least,
that’s what it must seem like to the kids. We were the typical
fast food consumers before, and the kids got used to the frequent
visits to McDonalds and Burger King. Then, suddenly, something
changed. Ahhh! Mom’s buying organic now? It came like a shock to
my kids. But, this is not a phase, this is a lifestyle change.
I’m hoping their adjustment phase will soon come to an end.
Why did I make this change? The main reason is energy
levels. As a family, our energy level was too low. In the past, we
were spending too much time in front of the TV and not enough time
playing outside or doing other activities. I just didn’t have the
energy levels required to keep up with 3 little ones (my baby is
almost walking now…), so we switched. I was browsing through the
Sunday paper when an advertisement for a new organic food store
seemed to jump right out at me. It was having it’s grand opening
that weekend and I knew we had to go check it out.
I had thought about making this change before, but it always
seemed that you have to choose between healthy food and a healthy
budget, with shopping trips to places like Nature’s breaking the
bank. This new store was the perfect answer to my dilemma.
Everything I needed AND within our budget.
The kids don’t seem to agree. They have suddenly lost
their “appurtites” when I put food on the table. I don’t
understand how they can even tell the difference. Sure, the bread
is a bit different, but we were eating brown bread before. I was
even able to get them to eat some vegetables in the past. They
would be canned or frozen veggies, stripped of all their nutritious
content, and the kids would eat them right up. I present them with
REAL food, and they look at it like eating it will kill them.
Grimacing, they tell me that their “appurtite is gone”.
“Where did it go,” I ask them. They smile a bit, playing along
and then look under the table, over their shoulders and then back
at me, “I don’t know..it’s hiding.”
I want my kids to eat well, and they are gradually losing
their fear of this new food, but they are skipping dinner more than
they used to. I know they’re hungry, because they ask for snacks
all day long. Luckily, they can’t tell organic peanut butter and
jelly sandwiches from the stuff they used to eat. But, children
cannot live off of cheerios and pb&j sandwiches exclusively, as
much as they’d like to.
I’ll keep
experimenting to see what works and hopefully soon I’ll find a
way to help them find their “appurtites” when it comes to
dinner time.
Amy Topham
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