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Before your child's first
birthday there are many games that you can play with your infant.
Playing these games will make you bond with your child more and boost
your baby's brain power at the same time. Here are some games that you
may want to try.
Where is it?
Let your baby see you hide an object under a blanket or a rug
and then ask "Where is it?" As he or she becomes expert at
finding a single item, help lengthen his or her attention span by
hiding two or three things at a time.
Peekaboo
This is everybody's favorite that never goes out of style with
infants.
Find you nose
Your baby loves all of her or his many body parts, and
pointing them out can be a real adventure. Ask, "Where is your
nose?", "Where are your toes" and watch your baby's
excitement as she or he points to the right place.
Patting and Clapping
Rhymes that include action such as pat-a-cake and "This
little piggy....", involve many of your child's senses and as she
or he becomes familiar with these games, she is anxious and delighted
to take part in your next move.
Singing
You don't have to be a great singer to sing to your baby. The softness
of your voice calms your baby and establishes a nice bond between the
two of you.
Make up a melody to this
old Russian lullaby or say these words as you rock your baby:
Go to sleep my darling
baby
Bayushki baio
See the moon is shining on you.
Bayushki baio
I will tell you many stories,
If you close your eyes.
Go to sleep my darling baby.
Bayushki baio
What brain research
says:
Infants and their parents are biologically wired to have close
emotional ties, which develop slowly over the baby's first year of
life with coos, gazes, and smiles.
A Goodnight
Rhyme
Rock your baby as you say the following rhyme:
Good night sweet baby,
goodnight sweet one,
The clock is ticking and says “were done.
Goodnight sweet baby, goodnight my dear
The stars are twinkling and sleep is near.
Gently put your baby in
his bed and say "Good night, good night." Rub his back and
give him a kiss.
What brain research
says:
Holding and cuddling comforts your baby and helps his brain grow.
Puppet Peekaboo
Children love watching and playing with puppets.
Put a puppet on your hand
and hold it behind your back. Bring out the puppet and say,
"Peekaboo, (child's name)." Now put it behind your
back again... Continue doing this until your baby begins to
anticipate the puppet coming out at a certain place...Then bring the
puppet out at a different place-over your head, over the baby's head.
Always bring it down in front of your baby's face (not too close) when
you say the peekaboo words....Give the puppet to your baby and see if
she will imitate you.
What brain research
says: With every game of peekaboo, thousands of connections among
brain cells are formed or strengthened, adding a bit more development
to the complex "wiring" that will remain largely in place
for the rest of the child's life. These connections are more difficult
to make later on.
Humpty Dumpty
Say the popular nursery rhyme as you bounce your baby on your knees.
Humpty Dumpty sat on a
wall. (bounce baby)
Humpty Dumpty had a great fall. (open your knees and, while
holding your baby securely, let him slide down to the ground)
All the kings horses and all the kings men,
Couldn't put Humpty together again. (bring baby back to your
knees).
Give your baby a favorite
stuffed animal to hold as you play this game. This may give him the
idea to play the game with his stuffed animal.
What brain research
says: Songs, movement, and musical games of childhood have been
called "brilliant neurological exercises" that introduce
children to speech patterns, sensory motor skills, and essential
movement skills.
Sensory
Experiences
Exposing your baby to many different sensations will broaden her
awareness of herself and the world.
Try rubbing your baby's
arms with different fabrics. Satin, wool, and terrycloth are good
fabrics to start with.
Give your baby an
opportunity to experience different smells. Go outside and smell a
flower. Smell a freshly cut orange.
Note: Be careful not to overstimulate your baby. Watch for signs that
your baby is tired of the game.
What brain research
says: What babies see and smell cause brain connections to be
made, especially if the experiences happen in a loving, consistent,
predictable manner.
Jack in the
Box
This popular game helps reinforce the idea that surprises can be
fun. Make a fist with both hands and tuck your thumb under the
fingers. On the words, "Yes I will," pop up your
thumbs.
Jack in the box sits so
still.
Won't you come out?
Yes, I will.
Help your child make a
fist and show him how to pop up his thumb.You can also play this game
by crouching down and jumping up.
What brain research
says: Blocks, art, and pretending all help children develop
curiosity, language, problem-solving skills, and mathematical skills.
Source: The parents
Book of Lists (Griffin Trade Paperbacks, 2000), Brain Games for Babies
by Jackie Silberg
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